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Saturday, May 02, 2009
Choices/ 2:03 AM Guy re-meets girl, guy hangs out with girl, guy likes girl, guy pops the question to girl asking if there was ever a possibility one day, girl never answers leaving him hanging... It's always better to be in a position to choose than be chosen - something that I learned over the years. Yet, to what extent does that statement hold true? To like someone and be willing to do things for him or her, that's voluntary and whether it works out or not, that's another issue altogether. If there was ever a line between leading someone on by dropping the wrong hints, if you're never liking the guy, please, let him know. It's not fair to him waiting for so long when there're no answers whatsoever. You said that I was your best friend. BFF. Listening you pour out your heart and talking to you and stuff...I guess, that ought to be the limit of what a best friend should do. When I asked that question, I did expect some answers. Yet, keeping me guessing for so long is really frustrating on my side. I'm not some fortune teller...I can't read your mind. Period. Throughout these days, all I can infer is that you are looking for companionship. Not relationship. Then again, why are you keep telling me this and that about being single and stuff. Why should I be angry about this? Afterall, I ought to be treating you like a friend. I was direct about the previous incident. That's the outcome you ought to have expected when you lead that guy on and giving him the wrong kind of impression. Raising someone's hopes real high and pushing it down to a free-fall next, is simply cruel. Keeping another person in the guessing game is a slow and torturous kill. I just hope you aren't secretly enjoying it. It's sick. There will always be suckers out there who are willing to go the extra lengths for you. If you enjoy the position of choosing and the process of being chased, I wish you luck. After so long, I'm really getting sick and tired on my part. You need to know that you cannot have the best of all worlds. You have to learn to make a choice some point in time. I've made my choice too. That's all it's going to be and I am not going to look back. I'm not guilty of anything since there wasn't any real progress or commitments to begin with. For the very least, let's maintain and make this friendship worthy and pure shall we? |
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