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Friday, March 23, 2007
thoughts for the week/ 10:31 PM Friends. Aren't they supposed to be the ones who know you the best, give you support when you're down? Thankfully, I've got my fair share of good friends who are always there whenever I need help. And I know that I shouldn't take them for granted. I always appreciate my friends who make an effort to get things done and I acknowledge them for their effort. Yeah, it's in my nature to jibe and maybe throw in a few taunts here and there but in reality, that's all in pure fun. I'm not perfect, perhaps I stepped over the line somewhere without knowing hence offending some people. But doing that kind of thing last wk, and I'm not even referring to the flashing part, really, it's time for that guy to get a life. On the court, who hasn't taking taunts by the sidelines before? You've gotta being sporting enough to play along. It's all in the name of fun isn't it? If getting physical is the idea of you having fun, I mean, you've gotta be so MATURE up there. Yeah, you're the man..I'm the kid..you win. yeah...like I give a damn... Responsibility. Some guys are proactive, others prefer to be reactive. I've been told that I should get all too calculative cos if really wanna count, can count until the cows count home. I've given the same advice to my friends when they get into frustrating situations like what I'm facing right now. But sometimes, I too wonder..do all of them appreciate for what we've done for them? Some jokers choose to push the responsibility around and when they're asked to get things done, they're busy they say. Oh c'mon...like who's not busy? I really feel sorry for a friend of mine who got into the plight last week of asking around for help. I feel guilty that I didn't lend a helping hand but compared to the others, I think I wasn't the worst around. I must be really pissed or mad or selfish. I can even get pissed watching a game of soccer, running to 3 different places to get the tix and I don't even get a single word of thanks from some of them. I've gotta move from my original 'best' seat times though I made the effort of coming super early to 'chop' the super good seats many hours before kickoff. Yay..what a way to be exploited! Even organising a simple soccer match can be just as frustrating. I know we shouldn't pang seh friends but seriously, there's no way to satisfy both sides. Being the organiser, I've gotta be neutral. I've got to consider others whom I've invited earlier on as well. Ha..sometimes I wonder, maybe I'll just shut up and sit back from now on... |
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